I never realized how much of a selfish idiot you really were until now. Your kids tell you every time you call (5 days a week) that they don't want to talk to you on the phone and yet, to spite your ex-husband, you decide it's a good idea to call every day? You obviously don't realize that when they say they don't want to talk to you that you don't even listen because you don't even pay attention to them at all. No wonder they act like they do. They want attention from you and bad attention is better than none at all...