I
endured hell then but my life now has improved greatly and I am much happier
now with my girlfriend; Kristin and our handsome baby boy. She has given me a
bundle of joy that we will get to cherish for the rest of our lives. I
should’ve never started this process of this ridiculous visa. As much as this
entire fiasco has cost me; I am happier now than I have ever been. I’m happy
with Kristin and our son and I am glad that I have found someone that does
cherish me for the things I do and makes me feel great. I know I have someone
now the rest of my life that will love me in spite of my flaws and not use me
or take advantage of me to meet their end goals. I’ve found what I want for the
rest of my life; true love, appreciation and fatherhood to a very handsome boy
and a loving relationship to a fantastic girl.

I wanted to give
an update on the “process” that I had endured for this. The anger, the
frustration, years of my life wasted. I ended up marrying someone that took
advantage of me and was very selfish. Had I known Jami was an extremely selfish
liar who only cared about what made her happy and ruined my life; I would’ve
never did this process. I spent a lot of money, time and energy on trying to
get my ex-wife to the states. It was a complete joke and a total waste of many
years of my life. She used me for my time and made me feel inadequate in every
way. I never should’ve let her move here nor should I have moved there. It was
the biggest mistake of my life letting someone as ugly and pitiful as her into
my life and putting a ring on her finger. I hate her in every way and I wish I
had never met her. I let my insecurity control me and that will never happen
again. I never loved her, never liked her and I wish I had never gotten engaged
to her or married her. That was a mistake that I wish I had never made. I