grey. ambivalence, egregiousness, anger, sadness, craziness, jealousy, aggression, rage,  black. resolution, beauty, transgression, understanding, terror, fear, instability, uncertainty, sadness.martyrdom. Ultimately, in some odd way, these all equate to love. During the really bad times though, these songs are for madmen (&women) only. Maybe these will help you work your shit out. These are not sexy love songs, but like so many songs, the lyrics...just might stop you from punching a wall.  Then, you'll want cry at the end.  and just like love...there are so many more songs out there...